I first read this quote
on Pinterest. At that time, the thing that comes to my mind is those two
sentences are form of people’s
resistance of individual’s destiny. Why
do i say so?
Here, i’m not meant to
judge anyone, everyone has the right to express an opinion, whether it is
acceptance or rejection. So, i just want
to share my point of view about this quote.
Be yourself, I think
few people disagree to this statement as the biggest part of motivation. This
statement has a strong power that can urge people to reach their will or
destiny, it could be positive meaning or even negative meaning.
Judging, I think none
of human who doesn’t do that kind of thing in their life even children can’t
avoid it. For me, judging on something is not wrong. That’s natural.
Thus, “they tell you to
be yourself, then they judge you” is a combination between two forms that can
yield a big decision in someone’s life. Realistically, someone changes just
because of the demands of people. In fact, people are born as their own self.
They were changed because of the influence of their parents, family, and
society that change their own absolute characters as time goes by.
Let’s we take a look at
real life problem, this kind of thing commonly happened to human physic and
behaviour. First, ugly people will always being mocked, that’s real. In fact,
almost everyone who has deficiency becomes a bully victim who ultimately end
their lives by suicide. However, not few of them are trying to change their
deficiency permanently such as plastic surgery, botox, and they are willing to
cut or change the part of their faces that isn’t perfect in order to look
perfect or more attractive. In contrast, this also applies to good looking
people. Not few of them are being mocked. They were admired publicly but cursed sarcastically from
behind. There are some people who get jealous and finally try to bring them
down.
Second, this is also
happens to good people. Many of them are underestimated, treated arbitrarily
just because they are too good or too patience. They were considered
naive. Hence, they were ask to be harder
to avoid oppression. I often hear this such of people’s opinions like, “ you
don’t have to be so good, sometimes it isn’t working in this hard life.” In the
other side, this problem happens to bad-mannered people. Not few of them
treatened unwell (injustice). They were required to be good in order to be
accepted and appreciated by many people. Is it confusing? So what we are
supposed to do?
Obviously, our lives
are demanded by many things and from that demands we depend our lives. For me,
everything is depend on ourselves. Our belief in ourselve, and appreciate
ourselves. Nothing can change our life except ourselves. It’s okay being ugly,
it’s okay if you are not okay. The good or bad of a person is a
self-reflection, nothing can possibly same in the world. Do what you think is
right, don’t do what you think it’s going to harm people. Appreciate and go
beautify yourself without change something that should be a gift from God to
you. Change your behaviour if many others are disturbed, if you have a feeling
so that you will understand which one is good and which one is bad. Be yourself
without any compulsion. Everything is from you and will be back to you.
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